Why Twitter Mobile Apps Don’t Interest Me

See, that I can understand. It's all similar people doing similar things - and who doesn't love a nerdfest?? ;-)Like you say, it's just the other side of the coin where it might be one techy in a group of "normal" people who don't care about tweeting or Facebooking and just want to hang out with a friend. And the friend is busy hanging out with "strangers" online.

See, that I can understand. It's all similar people doing similar things - and who doesn't love a nerdfest?? ;-)Like you say, it's just the other side of the coin where it might be one techy in a group of "normal" people who don't care about tweeting or Facebooking and just want to hang out with a friend. And the friend is busy hanging out with "strangers" online.

yes indeedy, my friend. I'm definitely not a fan of the rude in-your-face tweeting that I see many people doing when in mixed company. "Mixed company" is the operative phrase here. There are times when I do think it's appropriate. For example, most Friday afternoons, a group of Ottawa tech-geeks at a downtown watering hole for our weekly wind-down session. There's anywhere from 4 to 8 of us, and we're merrily tapping away on laptops, iPhones, and other devices. We're also talking to each other directly, but we're carrying the conversation into the online space as well. For this particular event, tweeting and blogging and posting photos to Flickr are all part of the socializing. But we all know that going in. So nobody feels like it's rude or anti-social. In fact, it's quite the opposite. We're loud and boisterous, to the point where I'm sure even the Twitter community can hear us!It's comes down to common sense. I wouldn't haul out my laptop at my girlfriend's birthday party. I wouldn't spend the whole night tweeting at my parent's anniversary (unless it was just to post a quick photo of the happy couple). And I wouldn't waste an entire conference "live tweeting" it for the benefit of a few people who may only be mildly interested. Like our mums taught us - in a social situation, use common sense and mind your manners, and not only will you have more fun but you just might get invited back. :)

I have a twitter app on my blackberry and rarely use it unless I'm shopping with my girlfriend and she's trying stuff on and I have free time or if we're driving somewhere and I just have that urge to stay connected.I do like this post though and agree with the "live tweeting" which I could see as being a bit counter productive for people.

I have a great image from a wedding we photographed last year. The bride and groom are at their table at the reception tapping away on their iPhones - they had no idea I was there. When I asked them, they were both updating their Facebook status to Married!

I understand that completely, David - there are some huge uses of smartphones from both a personal and business perspective. It's the non-critical use that seems to get abused the most, sadly, and where the personal relationships and friendships suffer from it.And about that wall - who builds something 2-foot tall and expects it to make a difference?? ;-)

Being from the other side of Mr. Hadrian's wall, I have to say that I totally disagree and that for me mobile apps (not just Twitter ones) are essential - at least for me. Since I spend a lot of time on the road, I need to be able to keep in touch and I rely on my iPhone for this. I also have to contend with the IT Guy at my office ( http://totallyincorrect.com/?p=2423 ) so for most of the time I'm awake, I have no other connection than my phone. I'm actually pretty excited that the new Tweetdeck iPhone app is going to let me take part in #chats from my phone.Having said that, I try not to let my manners deteriorate just because I'm connected 24/7. I never answer my phone when I with a client, let alone play around on Twitter or Facebook. I must admit, I hate it when I'm disconnected - a lot of my clients are defense companies and I often can't take my phone to meetings there AAARRRRGGGHHHH!!!!!

Hi Danny,I agree with your article and I do not think you are an idealist. If you are, then I am the same.I cannot stand bad manners either. Fiorenza

That's definitely where live tweetups come into play. I have to admit, I've been surprised many times by the real-life version of someone I connect with regularly. The majority, surprised in a good way. A few - not so much. It does show that you can never be 100% sure until, as you say, you can look someone in the eye and gauge real emotion, sincerity, whatever, that you can get a feeling of how genuine it all is.I hope the proliferation of real-time technology doesn't erode real-life interaction. Which, I guess, makes the conversation happening here in the comments quite ironic. ;-)

I'm new to this scene, so have pondered this question quietly. But a good southern boy, I'm not new to politeness ... and i gotta look people in the eye. I love the real-time view into conversations that Twitter provides, which I would not have otherwise But I've certainly wondered what the person on the other end of that conversation is thinking as the Tweeter does a running upload mid-sentence.

"All our social media and so many people have a problem being truly social" - couldn't have said it better myself, Barry.

The new Tweetdeck update supports the iPhone (though, not having tried it admittedly, I wonder how useful the multi-screen options of Tweetdeck will be on the iPhone's screen).But that's a great point you make, Sara - I think we do tend to forget what the technologies were made for. Twitter? Love it. Human voice? Irreplaceable.

Danny, I agree with you. I actually put twitter on my blackberry and I am considering dumping it. If I can't wait until I get home to go online than I have a real problem. If you are out with friends or a social event, and continue to tweet, stay home! I have always heard about being "present". How can you do that if you stray to your twitter account while socializing with friends or associates. All our social media and so many people have a problem being truly social.

I'm feeling much the same way (the people are more important than the tools). Sometimes I almost wish all this technology didn't exist because then people would be forced to interact more face-to-face. I really appreciate connections in person and would much rather have dinner with someone or sit outside on a park bench in the rain, even, than be forced to talk to people over the internet.In some cases, though, it's necessary - for instance, connecting to people in different countries is a lot easier. However, I think people are often forgetting what the cellular phone was originally invented for - talking on the phone. As much as getting Tweets from people excites me, I would much rather have an actual conversation, if possible. If I had a smart phone that would accommodate Tweetdeck or Tweetie or one of those services, I might use it to check @replies or direct messages in addition to posting my own Tweets, but when I'm away from the computer, I'd rather be doing something else!Call me old-fashioned, if you like, but I agree with you, Danny.

It's funny you mention this. I'm the same way. 3-4 years ago when I wasn't as active online I had a Treo. Thought it was cool because I could get email on my phone. Turns out I didn't use it at all, only to make and take calls. Now that I am more involved online, I have a basic flip phone.It's a form of balance for me. Like you mentioned, when I'm out eating that's my time with friends/family. I stare at a computer all day, this is my time to clear my mind, adjust my eyes and relax. Some people can handle being connect 24/7 - just not me.

I'm with Mr. Schechter up there. I think this post addresses a couple different things -- the power of these tools have to enhance your work and also the abuse of them.

I'm with you in that we really lean way too much on technology these days, and I think many of us do it specifically to avoid making those human connections anymore. Then there are some of us who just can't let go.

To tweet mid-sentence or spend more time proliferating what you hear at a conference than actually absorbing what's being said is inappropriate and often detrimental to you, the people you're with, and probably your business, too.

But used in moderation and without alienating your friends and colleagues, I think mobile apps can be great things. Granted, I don't have a Blackberry or an iPhone either, but I've had moments where I wished for one or the other, and those moments weren't ones in which I would've alienated myself or my relationships with others.

Great food for thought!
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Lots of great points here in post and in the comments. I just think this is the world we’re living in now. People are becoming addicted to staying connected. Whether we're at work, at a bar or where ever else, we feel the need to be connected not just to the people you're with, but to EVERYONE. Is it right? Not sure...but it's happening and it's not changing anytime soon.

I agree with you about social situations like dinner or mid conversation, it's completely rude to pull out your phone and start typing away. During a speaker, I guess that depends on the person. If they're able to post main points that a speaker makes while still paying attention, I don't see a problem with it. It's definitely a changing environment for speakers, but they'll have to adapt the same way everyone has to adapt when technology shifts.

It also depends on why you use these tools. As a community manager, I'm pretty much always on call and have to remain accessible at all times. If there's a customer with a problem, I better be there. This would be impossible without mobile technology/tools.

David

Danny,

I agree here with you here... kind of.

I think the title should have been... "Is your Smart phone a tool or are you?"

I think it comes down to the ability to be social in a social situation. It is funny how many people I have met, or heard of this happening through others, that are very social online but you put them in a real human social scene and they freeze up and talk to no one. But they will be in the corner, looking at their iPhone or whatever device and be chatting away, looking busy, and letting the world, or whoever is watching, know what is going on that they are not participating in.

In my business however, my iPhone is my computer away from the desk. Since so much do what I do is online, I need to have it with me wherever I go. Sure, at times I wish I could put the damn thing in a fire-pit to get away from the noise and constant attention it brings, but at the end of the day it is a necessity for what I do. And I know when it is time to put it away and be "social" or just freaking relax.

Also there are many situations I have been in where I am out for the night and people are just focused on their phone and not paying attention to the humans in front of them... but ya know what? Maybe that is OK for them.

Maybe "social media" tools such as twitter, facebook etc and the hand held devices are bringing the people who would usually never socialize in public out of their shell a little bit.

I think it is about just not being a "tool" in social situations. When out with friends or family do not check your twitter stream every 5 mins... or your facebook updates... Use your mouth and communicate for heck sakes.

Maybe these guru's out there telling people how to make social media work for you maybe needs to write a book called.... "I'm Now Anti-Social Thanks To Social Media... Now What? An Advanced Guide On Making You A People Person In The In Today's Social Media World" (I think that would be a funny read myself... hmmm. maybe I should write it!)

So, to summarize folks... Do not let your tools of social media make you out the be the "tool" in the real worlds crowd!

Nuf said!

Doc
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Hey Danny,

I know I was supposed to send you that information but as you know I prefer to use an ink-dipped feather that I scrach on to wood pulp which is in-turn deliveried via horseback.

It should be at your trading post by month's end.
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You're idealistic--or why do you have a cellphone in the first place? I have a friend in her late 20s who doesn't own a cellphone. That's Luddicism.

Rewinding time about two decades before iPods, did you ever own a WalkMan or a BoomBox? I did... for the same reason mobile apps make sense.
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I hear you Danny. Hopefully as mobile social applications become more and more commonplace an etiquette for their use will develop in the same way it has with their online equivalents. I think a lot of people probably don't even realize that others might not appreciate them texting and twittering away in social settings, and that they would change their behavior if made aware of that fact.

Greg @ iGoMogul

I agree with you to a point as someone who's Blackberry is a third appendage. It is rude to sit and Tweet while enjoying a meal or other social experience. However, that isn't the only time that one can use a Twitter mobile app and there are a lot of times it comes in handy. When I go to tradeshows with a client I like to Tweet from the show floor, and often I end up connecting with others I didn't know were there. It's also much easier to access DMs, and sometimes those are urgent and important just like any email. In addition, there is the same entertainment and informational value of reading tweets outside of your office, i.e. waiting for a meeting, traveling, etc...

As someone who travels somewhat often and attends a lot of meetings, its great to feel connected out of the office. It alleviates a lot of the catch up that goes with being offline for an entire day. Just my thoughts! :)

Rachel

I'm SO right there with ya, Danny. I loves me some Twitter, but I feel so rude entering text in to my phone while visiting with friends and colleagues. Every once in awhile I'll do it, but it's usually because I'm being egged on by a friend (most of mine aren't on Twitter).

Time with family, friends and colleagues lose value if you're not paying attention - whether it be because you're Twittering, texting, talking to someone else on the phone or just plain not listening.
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I honestly see this as two separate posts... the first one is the power and uses for mobile computing and the second is about their excessive (and often inappropriate use).

The modern mobile tools are incredibly powerful and reach way beyond Twitter. From access to email, amazing tools like Evernote and RSS readers, I am now able to access, consume and share an immense information with friends and colleagues. These tools, when used correctly, can help you grow and enhance your network.

Where you have a completely valid point is the appropriate usage of these tools. We need to learn to use the off button every once in a while, especially when with company... It's not so much a matter of living in the present, but a matter of living in our present location. It's great to keep your social circle up to date, but never at the expense of the person sitting right in front of you.
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Hi Danny,

I think you're absolutely right. Aside from when Amanda and I are doing our projects, I try to steer clear of carrying anything on me (electronic or otherwise) that would distract from 1. Meeting new people and 2. Enjoying the experience of being disconnected.
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A week ago I would have been disagreeing with you Danny, but I lost my iPhone in the pool this past weekend and as I mentioned on my own blog yesterday I'm actually feeling quite liberated. Too often I would depend on my iPhone as a way to do something in lieu of reaching out to actual humans and you see it constantly at events and even when out on a Saturday night. How long can I last without another "smart" phone? Not sure, but it's been nice while it lasted.

/kff
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Not to be redundant but... yeah, what Danny said! People are shocked, even appalled, that I don't have an iPhone/Blackberry. My phone is a... phone. I think it may have been FREE. *gasp* but I know my addictions and this is one way for me to create some boundaries.

When I'm NOT on my laptop, it's because I want to be wherever I am, with whoever I am... my kids, my friends... or with YOU! In my constant challenge to be "fully present" in life, I feel that Tweeting in public just doesn't serve that higher purpose.

So peeps, if you send me a text message, don't expect an elaborate response coz I don't have a keyboard! :)
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Hey Danny,

I'm with you on this. It gets really surreal sometimes when a group of people will all be twittering or texting away or checking facebook, wrapped up in their 'social media' and yet being incredibly anti-social at the same time.

Live in the moment and enjoy the people you are actually with. That's what it's all supposed to be about anyway, right? Connecting with people? So put away your phones and mobile apps for two seconds and connect. Be social.

Anyway - gotta run. Sitting here at dinner with my family and I have to go Twitter about this article!
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You are being idealistic.

I hear your point but this is the world we now live in. Mobile apps rock when i am in stuck in traffic, at the airport, having a beer with friends, or just laying at the beach.

You are insinuating that you cant be effective connector and multitask. Some people can, some people can't.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Cheers!

I hear where you're coming from Danny, but my iPhone helps me jot down someone's contact info or a follow up point real quick and get right back into the conversation near immediately. If I'm at dinner with someone, I won't sit there tweeting the whole time, but at networking events, mobile twitter apps lets me follow people on the spot and not have to worry about getting their contact info.

Pros and cons to each approach.
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Hallelujah. Thank you for writing this post. Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one in the world who feels this way.

Fast forward a year -- and has anything changed, Danny? Or do you still not have a smartphone? What mobile device do you use (if you have one)?

See, that I can understand. It's all similar people doing similar things - and who doesn't love a nerdfest?? ;-)

Like you say, it's just the other side of the coin where it might be one techy in a group of "normal" people who don't care about tweeting or Facebooking and just want to hang out with a friend. And the friend is busy hanging out with "strangers" online.

yes indeedy, my friend. I'm definitely not a fan of the rude in-your-face tweeting that I see many people doing when in mixed company. "Mixed company" is the operative phrase here. There are times when I do think it's appropriate. For example, most Friday afternoons, a group of Ottawa tech-geeks at a downtown watering hole for our weekly wind-down session. There's anywhere from 4 to 8 of us, and we're merrily tapping away on laptops, iPhones, and other devices. We're also talking to each other directly, but we're carrying the conversation into the online space as well.

For this particular event, tweeting and blogging and posting photos to Flickr are all part of the socializing. But we all know that going in. So nobody feels like it's rude or anti-social. In fact, it's quite the opposite. We're loud and boisterous, to the point where I'm sure even the Twitter community can hear us!

It's comes down to common sense. I wouldn't haul out my laptop at my girlfriend's birthday party. I wouldn't spend the whole night tweeting at my parent's anniversary (unless it was just to post a quick photo of the happy couple). And I wouldn't waste an entire conference "live tweeting" it for the benefit of a few people who may only be mildly interested.

Like our mums taught us - in a social situation, use common sense and mind your manners, and not only will you have more fun but you just might get invited back.

:)

I have a twitter app on my blackberry and rarely use it unless I'm shopping with my girlfriend and she's trying stuff on and I have free time or if we're driving somewhere and I just have that urge to stay connected.

I do like this post though and agree with the "live tweeting" which I could see as being a bit counter productive for people.

I have a great image from a wedding we photographed last year. The bride and groom are at their table at the reception tapping away on their iPhones - they had no idea I was there.

When I asked them, they were both updating their Facebook status to Married!

I understand that completely, David - there are some huge uses of smartphones from both a personal and business perspective. It's the non-critical use that seems to get abused the most, sadly, and where the personal relationships and friendships suffer from it.

And about that wall - who builds something 2-foot tall and expects it to make a difference?? ;-)

Being from the other side of Mr. Hadrian's wall, I have to say that I totally disagree and that for me mobile apps (not just Twitter ones) are essential - at least for me.

Since I spend a lot of time on the road, I need to be able to keep in touch and I rely on my iPhone for this. I also have to contend with the IT Guy at my office ( http://totallyincorrect.com/?p=2423 ) so for most of the time I'm awake, I have no other connection than my phone. I'm actually pretty excited that the new Tweetdeck iPhone app is going to let me take part in #chats from my phone.

Having said that, I try not to let my manners deteriorate just because I'm connected 24/7. I never answer my phone when I with a client, let alone play around on Twitter or Facebook. I must admit, I hate it when I'm disconnected - a lot of my clients are defense companies and I often can't take my phone to meetings there AAARRRRGGGHHHH!!!!!

Hi Danny,

I agree with your article and I do not think you are an idealist. If you are, then I am the same.
I cannot stand bad manners either.
Fiorenza

That's definitely where live tweetups come into play. I have to admit, I've been surprised many times by the real-life version of someone I connect with regularly. The majority, surprised in a good way. A few - not so much. It does show that you can never be 100% sure until, as you say, you can look someone in the eye and gauge real emotion, sincerity, whatever, that you can get a feeling of how genuine it all is.

I hope the proliferation of real-time technology doesn't erode real-life interaction. Which, I guess, makes the conversation happening here in the comments quite ironic. ;-)

I'm new to this scene, so have pondered this question quietly. But a good southern boy, I'm not new to politeness ... and i gotta look people in the eye. I love the real-time view into conversations that Twitter provides, which I would not have otherwise But I've certainly wondered what the person on the other end of that conversation is thinking as the Tweeter does a running upload mid-sentence.

"All our social media and so many people have a problem being truly social" - couldn't have said it better myself, Barry.

The new Tweetdeck update supports the iPhone (though, not having tried it admittedly, I wonder how useful the multi-screen options of Tweetdeck will be on the iPhone's screen).

But that's a great point you make, Sara - I think we do tend to forget what the technologies were made for. Twitter? Love it. Human voice? Irreplaceable.

Danny, I agree with you. I actually put twitter on my blackberry and I am considering dumping it. If I can't wait until I get home to go online than I have a real problem.

If you are out with friends or a social event, and continue to tweet, stay home! I have always heard about being "present". How can you do that if you stray to your twitter account while socializing with friends or associates.

All our social media and so many people have a problem being truly social.

I'm feeling much the same way (the people are more important than the tools). Sometimes I almost wish all this technology didn't exist because then people would be forced to interact more face-to-face. I really appreciate connections in person and would much rather have dinner with someone or sit outside on a park bench in the rain, even, than be forced to talk to people over the internet.

In some cases, though, it's necessary - for instance, connecting to people in different countries is a lot easier. However, I think people are often forgetting what the cellular phone was originally invented for - talking on the phone. As much as getting Tweets from people excites me, I would much rather have an actual conversation, if possible.

If I had a smart phone that would accommodate Tweetdeck or Tweetie or one of those services, I might use it to check @replies or direct messages in addition to posting my own Tweets, but when I'm away from the computer, I'd rather be doing something else!

Call me old-fashioned, if you like, but I agree with you, Danny.

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It's funny you mention this. I'm the same way. 3-4 years ago when I wasn't as active online I had a Treo. Thought it was cool because I could get email on my phone. Turns out I didn't use it at all, only to make and take calls. Now that I am more involved online, I have a basic flip phone.

It's a form of balance for me. Like you mentioned, when I'm out eating that's my time with friends/family. I stare at a computer all day, this is my time to clear my mind, adjust my eyes and relax. Some people can handle being connect 24/7 - just not me.