
In life and in business, we’re constantly learning.
New knowledge; new ideas; new viewpoints. Anyone that says otherwise is missing out.
After all, when we stop learning, we (or our business) simply die. Your competitors are always learning; so should you.
But where do we learn from?
Where do we get the inspiration to make the changes we need to, and where do we learn how to do things right, and what may not be?
For me, it’s my little girl.
Even though I haven’t seen her since before her first birthday (she’ll be eight next January), she continues to teach me a lot about myself, and how I do business.
Nothing is Forever
Before my daughter was born, her mother and I split up. We had different views on the future, and it wouldn’t have been fair on our daughter to stay together. So we went our separate ways. My ex-partner then moved to be with her parents, and didn’t want me to have access.
Cut a long story short, despite trying through legal channels, I still don’t have access and the country my daughter is in doesn’t recognize U.K. law where this all started. So, always at square one.
But that’s taught me that nothing is forever, and patience is a virtue.
At some point in the future, my daughter will be old enough to make her own decisions. She can find me if she wishes, and I’ll make it as easy as I can to make it happen if she wants it.
It reminds me that you don’t always have to have something now, no matter how much you want it.
- Your business can still thrive long after early struggles.
- Your blog will get the readers and interaction you crave.
- Your promotion at work is still possible, even if you missed this time around.
We all want things to happen right now. That’s natural; that’s human nature. But the best things really do come to those who wait.
We Don’t Know Everything
When I was younger and full of romantic idealism, I always believed that we find love, settle down, have children and live happily ever after.
Obviously I soon learned different. Love doesn’t conquer all; happily ever after is often just for fairytales. What we think we know soon meets life’s reality.
I thought I knew how I’d raise my daughter. The stories I’d tell her. The hopes I’d help her build and achieve. The weekends we’d spend just doing whatever came up, since that’s how we roll.
But we don’t know everything, and what we think we did doesn’t come to fruition.
And that’s okay. Because we learn, and understand, and adapt.
- We tell our clients we’re unsure of something, but we’ll work it out together.
- We read our blog’s comments and see something new we didn’t know before.
- We listen to our bosses, because as much as they can be an ass, sometimes asses just make sense.
Because we don’t know everything, we make sure we learn what we need to, to know at least something. And that’s an advantage right away.
My daughter isn’t physically in my life at the moment, but she is in it in every other way, every single day. Every thing I do is for her, and any other kids I may have.
Because of that, I’m always learning. And asking. And (hopefully) growing. And I feel a better person for it.
How about you – where does your learning come from?








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