Spend any amount of time around social media conversations, and one word usually pops up more than any other – transparency.
People talk about social media empowering consumers, because now brands have to be “transparent” in every communication.
People talk about social media sorting the wheat from the chaff, because Google is their friend and ideas can be challenged.
People talk about snake oil salesmen losing their grip because transparency (or lack of) will eventually show the frauds from the real deal.
All good ideals. All good hopes. If it were really true.
Transparent Only If We’re Allowed to Be
The thing is, this whole “transparency thing” in social media isn’t actually happening, because we’re essentially not allowing it to happen.
There’s this unwritten rule in social media that it’s best to focus on what you can achieve versus calling out fakes and bad practices. It’s the way the social web works best, folks say.
And that may be true – but then that approach also dilutes the whole transparency argument too.
For example, there’s a very well-known blogger-turned-author in the U.S. that talks a lot about community and how humble he is to have one of the best. Yet the same blogger is quick to send nasty emails to people who don’t offer anything but platitudes for his book(s).
Then there’s the Canadian social media guy who talks a lot about how to be active online, but – much like his American counterpart – sends rather nasty emails and direct messages on Twitter to folks who dare to question his approach.
You’ll notice I didn’t refer to these two people by names (and there are many more like them). Because, as I mentioned earlier, it’s just not done in social media. People call you a hater, and you’re seen as unprofessional.
Yet should we really care? After all, as so many people say, we should concentrate on what we do, right, not what others do?
The thing is, if we do that when the behaviour of some people verges on bullying, by staying silent we’re encouraging this behaviour. We’re essentially saying, “You know what, you continue to show one face in public and a completely different one in private, because it doesn’t affect us.”
But it does affect us.
It’s our friends that are being picked on. It’s our colleagues that are being affected. And, most importantly, it’s our morals that are being compromised by staying silent.
So what do we do? Do we do anything? Do we contact these people directly and say we know what’s happening and try stop it? Do we publicly question them? Or do we continue with this idea that social media has made everything transparent, so leave the status quo as it is?
The decision is yours.